Top 5 Sex Positions for P-Spot Orgasms: A Pleasure Roadmap for Trans & Nonbinary Partners
Let’s talk about the P-spot—better known as the prostate. This little walnut-sized pleasure nugget is hiding out, just waiting to give waves of incredible sensations to those who take the time to find it. Whether you're a transmasculine person with bottom growth, someone with a surgically created phallus, a trans woman who is exploring anal play, or a partner to any of the above, sex positions for P-spot orgasms are a thing of beauty that everyone can enjoy finding new ways to explore.
Today's roundup combines the best positions to unlock the magic if you’re in the mood for some sweet, skillful P-spot stimulation.
#5 The "Tap-That Hotspot" Position
This position puts a fun twist on the classic Doggy Style, but with a little focus on the P-spot. While the regular Doggy Style is awesome, leaning forward to flatten the receiver’s hips can create easy access to that special spot. It's subtle yet effective.
How to:
- The receiving partner should get onto hands and knees first, then lower themselves onto their forearms and allow their hips to drop slightly while keeping the behind pushed up.
- The penetrating partner kneels behind and enters while leaning forward, keeping a close connection to the receiver, aiming towards the front wall of the receiver’s body—where the fabled P-spot lurks.
Why it works: The forward angle makes it easier to hit the prostate during thrusts because the receiver’s hips are tilted just right. Bonus? The extra closeness can be extra intimate!
Pro Tip: Elevate the receiving partner’s hips with a pillow for comfortable, extended sessions, and don't forget to bring in a small vibrator—you know, like a vibrating butt plug for those extra good vibes.
#4 The Laid-Back Rider
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Whoever said pleasure must be complicated hadn’t tried the Laid-Back Rider position. This one’s all about ease, prostate precision, and letting the good times roll. Here, the laid-back nature of the position helps the penetrating toy or penis angle naturally towards the P-spot. It gives both partners room to savor different angles without a rush—because some things are worth the wait, right?
How to:
- The receiving partner lies back comfortably with legs spread on a flat surface or supported with pillows under their hips to angle forward. They can control the intensity of penetration by how they move and adjust—like riding waves of pleasure.
- The penetrating partner sits or kneels in front, focusing on staying steady while the receiver does most of the moving. From there, it's all about maintaining a firm rhythm as the receiving partner grinds and adjusts for the sweet spot.
Why it works: The receiving partner’s angle naturally directs the penetrating partner's penis or dildo upwards, making it easier to hit the front wall of the rectum—right where the prostate is hiding. Combine this with the control the receiving partner has, and you’re headed for some targeted P-spot sensations without needing to overcomplicate things.
Good to Know: If you're not fully acquainted with your prostate's location, this position is an excellent one for experimenting. The receiving partner controls the movement and angle so you can fine-tune precisely where the sensations hit. Just a heads up, though: If your prostate is closer to the entrance, this position may keep things too deep for optimal contact, so play accordingly.
Pro tip: Enhance the experience by adding anal-friendly vibrators or stimulating toys.
#3 The "Get-a-Grip" Prostate Special
When it comes to locked-in positions, this one offers a beautifully intimate, from-behind setup that’s perfect for targeting the P-spot. Don’t let the lack of face-to-face contact fool you—this position offers a lot of skin-on-skin contact, allowing for deep emotional connection while hitting just the right internal angles.
How to:
- The receiving partner stands or kneels, slightly bent forward at the waist, perhaps leaning on a sturdy surface like a wall or—a little adventurous here—on a flight of stairs.
- The penetrating partner stands or kneels behind, holding onto the receiver’s hips or thighs for support. They can play with the angle of entry by adjusting the depth of their thrusts or leaning forward to switch things up.
Why it works: The vertical nature of the position gives the penetrating partner excellent control over thrusts, allowing for experimental angles that can brush against the prostate in all the right ways. Meanwhile, the receiving partner can brace themselves, adding stability and comfort, while both can enjoy the body warmth and close-up connection.
Good to know: If leg length differences are uneven, try bringing the position to stairs or an elevated step to level the playing field. This way, both of you can get into your groove while maintaining balance!
Pro tip: While the penetrating partner is busy with thrusting magic, the receiving partner can grab a penis stroker to up the pleasure ante. Or, if you’re in the mood for extra creativity, bring out a powerful wand massager for some synchronized play. With hands-free strokers and simultaneous prostate stimulation, you might both just hit that peak at exactly the right moment.
#2 The Prostate Tower of Pleasure
Bending over in the Prostate Tower of Pleasure is the go-to position for getting those deep angles and hitting the prostate… extra hard. Brace yourself—this one's for the flexibility seekers out there... but we have hacks to make it work for everyone!
How to:
- The receiving partner should bend forward and grab their ankles (yep, pretty flexible). Arch the back upwards so the hips stay high and rear exposure increases.
- The penetrating partner takes their stance from behind, grabbing the receiver’s hips for a stable grip and slowly thrusting in.
Why it works: The deep bend of the receiver’s body makes the anal canal feel snugger while directing penetration force straight toward that deep-seated zone known for P-spot magic.
Pro tip: No Flexibility? No Problem! Place a chair up against a wall or lean on the bed instead—taking some of the physical strain off while keeping the position sexy and effective for longer.
#1 The Lap of Luxury P-Spot King
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Ready to see your partner close up and loaded with P-spot access? The Lap of Luxury P-Spot King is a jazzed-up version of a typical missionary but with legs intertwined to give perfect positioning for deep thrusts.
How to:
- The receiving partner lies on their back with one leg bent and resting on the penetrating partner's shoulder while letting the other leg stay straight. The key here is keeping their hips angling upwards on the lap of the penetrating partner—not dropped too low.
- The penetrating partner kneels or sits between the receiving partner’s legs, entering and using gentle shallow thrusts that can stretch into deeper ones, maximizing front-facing contact and P-spot brushing.
Why it works: The lap positioning grants a perfect angle for the penetrating partner’s movements to slide right into the P-spot zone. Plus, deep body contact makes everything feel closer... and tongue-tied sexy.
Pro tip: Slide in a cock ring to enhance every thrust or bring in a vibrating cock extender for added sensations if you need a little more depth in those thrusts! It's all about extra stimulation.
From bent-over contortions to lap-sitting bliss, achieving p-spot orgasms is just a matter of getting creative and experimenting together. Whether packing or playing with dildos, the key is great communication with your partner and tweaking those angles until you both reach cosmic-level pleasure with these sex positions for p-spot orgasms!